Yes, it’s legit and safe. It is delivered in a discreet box. Cleaning is not as difficult as I thought it would be. You can rinse it off and let it air dry like any other silicone masturbator. I was thrilled with the “real feel” of the doll’s butt and boobs. Again, this is very realistic. Some say this device is perfect for virtual reality, and I agree. Any standard POV video or porn viewing associated with this device should be sufficient for most people.